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  1. I haven’t had much success on Reddit yet, but I think a big part of that is because I don’t have much karma—though I’m actively working on building it up. On X (formerly Twitter), I’ve had a few people subscribe to my profile, but most of them seem to be just looking for free content. Right now, I’mRead more

    I haven’t had much success on Reddit yet, but I think a big part of that is because I don’t have much karma—though I’m actively working on building it up. On X (formerly Twitter), I’ve had a few people subscribe to my profile, but most of them seem to be just looking for free content.

    Right now, I’m still experimenting and learning how to use both platforms more effectively to actually attract paying subs. It’s definitely a process, and I’m trying to find the right balance between promotion and protecting my content.

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  2. OnlyFans requires creators to tag AI-generated content, so if they’re not doing that, they’re breaking the rules. Also, those likes might be from free trials or fake engagement and not real subscribers. Try not to stress about it. AI can’t compete with the real human connection and personality you oRead more

    OnlyFans requires creators to tag AI-generated content, so if they’re not doing that, they’re breaking the rules. Also, those likes might be from free trials or fake engagement and not real subscribers.

    Try not to stress about it. AI can’t compete with the real human connection and personality you offer. Focus on what makes you unique – your audience will appreciate it.

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  3. First of all, if this is something you want to do—go for it, and try not to let other people’s opinions hold you back. I’m also 45, and proudly embracing my MILF era! I’ve found that my loyal fans on OF are incredibly supportive and appreciative. I don’t rely too heavily on promoting through socialRead more

    First of all, if this is something you want to do—go for it, and try not to let other people’s opinions hold you back. I’m also 45, and proudly embracing my MILF era! I’ve found that my loyal fans on OF are incredibly supportive and appreciative. I don’t rely too heavily on promoting through social media for my own reasons, but the audience I’ve built loves me for being authentic and confident in who I am.

    So truly—own it. Don’t let the negativity get in your head. Straighten your crown and keep doing what makes you feel powerful and fulfilled.

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  4. I use a free account as a 'video store' where fans can browse and purchase PPV content directly, making it easier for them to access content without waiting for me to send it.

    I use a free account as a ‘video store’ where fans can browse and purchase PPV content directly, making it easier for them to access content without waiting for me to send it.

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  5. Here’s what a typical workday looks like for me (though not every day is exactly the same): 5:00 AM: I wake up early and check all my platforms — spicy sites, Instagram, X (Twitter), etc. I review stats, reply to messages, and post content (photos, videos, stories) on Twitter, Bluesky, OF, and FanslRead more

    Here’s what a typical workday looks like for me (though not every day is exactly the same):

    5:00 AM: I wake up early and check all my platforms — spicy sites, Instagram, X (Twitter), etc. I review stats, reply to messages, and post content (photos, videos, stories) on Twitter, Bluesky, OF, and Fansly. Then I update my three Instagram accounts with reels, posts, and stories. This whole process takes about 1 to 1.5 hours.

    6:30–7:00 AM: I get ready for the day, prepare breakfast, and take my child to daycare.

    Around 9:00 AM: Once I’m back home and the house is tidy (I can’t focus if it’s messy!), I check messages and settle in at my laptop.

    9:00 AM–12:00 PM: I focus on core work — this could be editing content, scheduling posts, or creating new reels, photos, or videos depending on what’s needed that day.

    Lunch break.

    1:00–3:00 PM: I handle promotions — mainly on Instagram and Reddit — and check all my platforms again. I finish any remaining scheduling and chat with fans, including spicy DMs and sexting when needed.

    Afternoon/Evening: I switch to family time, do household chores, and relax. I still check my messages occasionally and post evening reels or updates on IG if needed.

    It’s not a strict schedule every day, but I do my best to stay organized. Truthfully, I end up online more than I’d like — I often have my phone in my hand, checking on things.

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  6. Here are a few things I do that my subscribers really enjoy: 1. Themed outfits for holidays. Dressing up adds variety and fun! For example, I’ve been a sexy leprechaun for St. Patrick’s Day, a bunny for Easter, and so on. 2. Giveaways with fun quizzes. I’ll post a question like “What’s my bra size?”Read more

    Here are a few things I do that my subscribers really enjoy:

    1. Themed outfits for holidays. Dressing up adds variety and fun! For example, I’ve been a sexy leprechaun for St. Patrick’s Day, a bunny for Easter, and so on.

    2. Giveaways with fun quizzes. I’ll post a question like “What’s my bra size?” or “Where am I from?” and the first person to answer correctly wins a small prize. It keeps fans engaged and adds a playful vibe.

    3. Random photo dumps. If I’ve had a fun weekend, I’ll share a mix of personal pics (outfits, food, selfies) and throw in a few nudes. These posts usually get tons of views.

    4. Candid life moments. Things like GRWM (get ready with me) videos or something simple but sexy, like eating a cupcake and licking the frosting off my chest. It feels spontaneous and keeps things real.

    5. Bloopers. These are a favorite. They add personality to my page and give me a way to use clips that didn’t turn out perfect. Fans love seeing the fun, unfiltered side too.

    Hope that gives you some inspiration! 😊

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  7. It really depends on what the message was about. Was it a personal attack, or was it related to how you're running your page? When I first started, I used to get really upset when someone criticized me or my content. But looking back, I realize I did make some mistakes early on, and in some cases, tRead more

    It really depends on what the message was about. Was it a personal attack, or was it related to how you’re running your page?

    When I first started, I used to get really upset when someone criticized me or my content. But looking back, I realize I did make some mistakes early on, and in some cases, the frustration from subscribers was understandable — even if the way they expressed it wasn’t.

    That said, no one deserves to be spoken to in a disrespectful or degrading way. If the message was a personal insult – about your appearance or just plain rude – that’s on them, not you. You can block and move on.

    But if the message was business-related, it might be worth taking a moment to reflect and see if there’s any helpful feedback hidden in there (even if it was poorly delivered).

    Stay confident – you’re learning, and that’s okay.

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  8. I totally get that TikTok and Instagram come with challenges, but honestly, avoiding them completely might be holding you back. Almost everyone uses those platforms — and many fans only discover creators through them. For example, I personally used only Instagram for years and only recently startedRead more

    I totally get that TikTok and Instagram come with challenges, but honestly, avoiding them completely might be holding you back. Almost everyone uses those platforms — and many fans only discover creators through them.

    For example, I personally used only Instagram for years and only recently started exploring other platforms like X, TikTok, and even Reddit. So you’d be missing out on a huge potential audience.

    In the meantime, try doing shoutout-for-shoutout (S4S) a few times a week with creators who have similar content. It’s a great way to share audiences — just make sure you genuinely vibe with the people you’re promoting.

    If you’re open to it, collaborations can also really help. They put you in front of an entirely new audience that’s already interested in this kind of content and may want to see more from you.

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