I just want to say how thankful I am for this post and all the supportive replies. I’m about five months in, and like many of you, I try to show up as my genuine self. I haven’t hit full burnout yet, but there are definitely days when I’m just not in the mood to post something sexy—so I don’t. Instead, I’ll share something real, like what’s going on at the farm or just a slice of everyday life. And honestly? No one’s complained.

I think those of us who focus on authenticity (which should definitely be considered its own niche!) naturally attract subs who appreciate that we’re real people—not just sexbots. All the tips here are super helpful, and I just wanted to add this perspective. Don’t be too hard on yourself—keep it fun and sustainable!