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Have you ever had a favorite fan suddenly delete their account?
Yep, it happens. You never really know why someone deleted their account - it could be for any number of personal reasons.
Yep, it happens. You never really know why someone deleted their account – it could be for any number of personal reasons.
See lessBurned out and losing interest – what should I do?
Like others have said, cancel the customs and take a break. Your mental and physical well-being should always come first Maybe it’s time to explore a different niche, or even consider doing something like coaching if you still want to stay in the sex work space. But first, give yourself the space toRead more
Like others have said, cancel the customs and take a break. Your mental and physical well-being should always come first
Maybe it’s time to explore a different niche, or even consider doing something like coaching if you still want to stay in the sex work space. But first, give yourself the space to feel better.
When I started, I was doing cam sessions that involved a lot of penetration, which was hard on me physically and emotionally. It left me feeling drained. Eventually, I pivoted to femdom, and I can’t tell you how much happier I am. Now I only film that kind of content when I want to – which, honestly, is like 4–5 times a year
Most of what I do now is CFNM, teasing, denial, and power-play content. Femdom gave me back the power I felt like I had lost. I’m in control now, and it’s incredibly empowering.
Sex work is so diverse – you don’t have to do anything that makes you uncomfortable.
See lessCurious: what does a full-time creator's schedule look like?
Here’s what a typical workday looks like for me (though not every day is exactly the same): 5:00 AM: I wake up early and check all my platforms — spicy sites, Instagram, X (Twitter), etc. I review stats, reply to messages, and post content (photos, videos, stories) on Twitter, Bluesky, OF, and FanslRead more
Here’s what a typical workday looks like for me (though not every day is exactly the same):
5:00 AM: I wake up early and check all my platforms — spicy sites, Instagram, X (Twitter), etc. I review stats, reply to messages, and post content (photos, videos, stories) on Twitter, Bluesky, OF, and Fansly. Then I update my three Instagram accounts with reels, posts, and stories. This whole process takes about 1 to 1.5 hours.
6:30–7:00 AM: I get ready for the day, prepare breakfast, and take my child to daycare.
Around 9:00 AM: Once I’m back home and the house is tidy (I can’t focus if it’s messy!), I check messages and settle in at my laptop.
9:00 AM–12:00 PM: I focus on core work — this could be editing content, scheduling posts, or creating new reels, photos, or videos depending on what’s needed that day.
Lunch break.
1:00–3:00 PM: I handle promotions — mainly on Instagram and Reddit — and check all my platforms again. I finish any remaining scheduling and chat with fans, including spicy DMs and sexting when needed.
Afternoon/Evening: I switch to family time, do household chores, and relax. I still check my messages occasionally and post evening reels or updates on IG if needed.
It’s not a strict schedule every day, but I do my best to stay organized. Truthfully, I end up online more than I’d like — I often have my phone in my hand, checking on things.
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