The best advice I can give from my own experience is to focus on leveling up – both yourself and your content. Real “sugar daddies” tend to have higher standards. Many of them support multiple creators at once, so they’re selective. They also tend to keep a low profile, usually because they have careers, businesses, and families.

The flashy guys usually just spend on themselves. But the real big spenders on my page? They often drive older cars, live in modest homes, and use credit cards strategically for points. They care more about experiences than material things, and they tend to have unique tastes.

If you present yourself in a unique, high-value way, they’ll notice. I’ve had some of them randomly tip me hundreds just because they had a good day in the stock market.

First, don’t do the free trials; offer discounted ones instead. I’ve also found that raising your subscription price and then applying a discount (so it ends up at your current price) makes people feel like they’re getting a better deal, which can actually boost sign-ups.

Next, post more often in regular (non-explicit) groups and communities where people are attractive but NSFW isn’t the main focus. That way, you spark curiosity, and people click on your links themselves.

On Instagram, focus on building a genuine following first. Once you have some traction, create a story highlight with the details they need to find you. This approach works better because most platforms actively suppress explicit content, so subtlety goes further.