Does anyone else feel crushed by the unrealistic beauty standards sometimes?
I’ve struggled with this for a long time, but recently I lost a good amount of weight, and it really helped boost my confidence, my content, and even my sales.
But today, I posted in a boob subreddit, and some guy commented that my boobs “aren’t even close to being big.”
It honestly wrecked my mood.
When I was chubbier, random strangers would compare me to slim girls on Instagram, and I’d get comments like “you’re not even that hot, your stomach isn’t flat.”
Now, I’m at a healthy weight – not super skinny, but healthy, and still I get people saying something negative, even though I’m a D-DD cup.
I even got another hate comment today, but this one stuck with me.
Sometimes it just feels exhausting. Like no matter what, the “ideal” they expect is impossible: super skinny and huge boobs. It’s crazy.
How do you deal with comments like these?