I’m wondering if it’s okay to restrict certain followers, or if I’m being too harsh. I usually restrict anyone who sends me unsolicited d*ck pics – if they can’t even ask for consent, I don’t want anything to do with them. I also restrict people who ignore my menu and constantly beg for things I clearly don’t offer. Sometimes, when I set a boundary, they even respond in a creepy or disrespectful way.
It makes me uncomfortable, and honestly, I feel like I shouldn’t have to put up with that. I expect a basic level of respect, and I want people to treat me like a real person, not just a product.
Am I overreacting by restricting them? Or is it fair to draw that line?
I fully support restricting anyone for any reason – it’s your page, your space, and you have every right to protect your peace. Especially when someone crosses boundaries like the ones you mentioned, restricting them is completely justified.
I might send a quick message before restricting just to let them know why—something simple like, “Hey, you ignored my rules and made me uncomfortable, so I’ve restricted your account.” But that’s totally optional and just how I handle it.
Bottom line: you’re 100% in the right to do what feels best for you.
Here’s a little tip: if someone sends a d1ck pic, I try to turn it into an upsell. I’ll respond with something like, ‘Hey babe, if you’re looking for a cock rating, I can give you my honest thoughts!’ Then I explain what’s included in the rating. More often than not, they’ll tip for it.
It’s your account, and you set the boundaries, but there are ways to turn those awkward moments into income.
I don’t usually restrict people right away — I try to make money first. I’m more likely to refuse someone who’s super sweet but messages me every single day, replies to every DM, and never actually buys anything. Like, I’m not here for endless free chit-chat! Meanwhile, the overly horny, dirty talkers who randomly send dick pics? As annoying as they can be, they’re often the ones who actually spend. So yeah… I’ll take their money.