I need advice on handling certain messages I’ve been getting lately. Specifically the blunt “how much to f*** you” type. I want to keep things professional and not scare off subscribers, but I also need a clear, polite, and maybe even playful way to let them know that’s not what I offer. At the same time, I’d like to gently steer them toward subscribing or purchasing PPV content instead. How do you set boundaries without killing the vibe?
A fun but firm way to respond could be: ‘I’m flattered you find me that attractive! But babe, that’s not on the menu. How about you show me your dick instead?’ Then send a locked message or lock your response to their photo. Most guys love showing off, so you can turn the situation into a paid interaction while keeping boundaries clear.
“Hey! I totally understand the interest, but unfortunately, that’s not something I have available. Is there anything else you’d be interested in instead?”
Keeping it short and friendly helps set a boundary without sounding harsh. In most cases, people are just looking for a reaction, and staying calm and professional keeps the convo in your control.
“Hey! I don’t offer that, and even just discussing it goes against the Terms of Service, so please don’t bring it up again. I’d hate for either of us to risk getting our accounts banned.”
Then go ahead and report their message))