I could use some advice. When someone messages me on OF asking if I sell underwear, I usually say I offer “panty merch” (to avoid saying “worn”) and then move the conversation to Snapchat, explaining it’s for privacy reasons—while also making it clear that I only accept payment on OF.
Lately though, some subscribers have been getting very detailed about wanting worn panties, and I’m not sure how to handle those messages. Should I move them off-platform before they start getting specific, or is there a better way to respond?
I still sell panties, but I avoid using words like “worn,” “used,” or “dirty.” Instead, I just say something like: “They’ll be shipped and arrive exactly how you want them.”
We’re allowed to ship clothing, personal items, or belongings as long as we don’t say they’re meant to be “used” or “worn.” Fans can share their shipping info, and as long as all payments go through OF, it stays within the rules.
I just say ‘Babe, happy to go over all the details after I get payment’ — keeps it simple.
Half the time they’re not even trying to buy, they’re just getting off talking about your panties. Don’t waste your time unless the money’s there.
I keep things very simple to avoid putting my account at risk. When someone asks if I sell panties, I respond with something like: “Yes, I do sell panties, but it’s against OnlyFans TOS to sell any used clothing items. So I can’t refer to them as worn — I hope you understand.”
I also don’t let subscribers choose specific styles. I offer one consistent option and it’s a basic black pair and the price is fixed. I don’t accept requests for extended wear times (e.g., more than 24 hours).
I never move these conversations off-platform, even if someone has tipped for access to a VIP chat like Snapchat. Redirecting discussions about TOS-sensitive topics off OnlyFans is a major red flag and can lead to your account being banned.